Being single in the winter doesn’t have to be a bummer—especially with a drink in your hand and prospects nearby.
If dating apps are the top way to meet someone in 2025 —which The Knot data says they are—what’s the alternative? The marriage site’s findings also show that meeting through mutual friends and chance encounters are in the top five. These events are, let’s face it, made easier with some social lubricant and the right atmosphere.
Tulsa’s array of watering holes provides ample opportunities to make connections. Though I’m not unattached, these are places I’d frequent (even more) if I were, spots to find interesting people or meet up for a first date in no-pressure environments. (And my single friends concur.)
Best for Cocktails: Valkyrie
Arts District
I’m always on the hunt for a good cocktail in any city I’m in. Even better is a good cocktail and a vibe that fosters conversation and creativity. For some extra swank this winter, head to Valkyrie. It’s dark and moody, and there are usually people sitting at the bar on their own, not just couples or groups. But it does fill up, especially on the weekends.
Valkyrie bartenders can easily make you a drink of their choice based on your tastes and preferences for cocktails. But you can also choose the normal order-from-the-menu route, and their selection always features interesting seasonal blends. If you’re feeling adventurous, just tell them what you usually like, and they’ll whip up a customized concoction in an adorable little glass that fits the style of drink.