John Paul Brammer

John Paul Brammer is an American writer and artist. He writes the queer advice column ¡Hola Papi!, originally published in Grindr's magazine Into and subsequently via a newsletter, and is the author of the memoir ¡Hola Papi! How to Come Out in a Walmart Parking Lot and Other Life Lessons.
Boys Will Be Boys
A letter from Cache, Oklahoma, about the perils of growing up gay in an Oklahoma small town
June 26, 2025